I do this one after stressful EMS calls, or anytime I feel a significant build-up of tension in my body. It’s surprisingly effective, even if it might look and feel a bit goofy.
Animals will instinctively shake off stress, as a way of discharging after high arousal states. Dr. James Gordon, a psychiatrist and trauma expert, has used this practice extensively with trauma survivors, including in Ukraine. We're tapping into the same natural stress release mechanism.
When to use it
Try a shake-out when you notice:
- you're keyed up or agitated
- you can't "turn it off" after something stressful
- you feel tense, braced, or restless
- you're stuck in mental urgency or irritability
- you're transitioning (home from work, after a hard conversation, after scrolling news)
Before you start
- If you can, stand with a little space around you.
- If standing isn't available, you can do a seated version (hands + shoulders).
- If you feel overwhelmed easily, choose a shorter, gentler version.
Safety note: If this makes you feel panicky, dissociated, or too activated, stop. Return to normal breathing, open your eyes, and look around the room.